My approach to healing burnout, navigating motherhood, honoring grief, and finding peace with your body.

In a world that constantly demands more—more productivity, more connection, more everything—it’s easy to lose track of our own center. You might feel like you’re running on empty, pulled in a million directions, or that the person you see in the mirror is a stranger. You might be navigating a profound life transition, like becoming a mother or grieving a deep loss, that has reshaped your identity in ways you never expected.

The cultural narrative tells us to “push through,” to “bounce back,” to optimize our way out of discomfort. But true healing isn’t about forcing or fixing; it’s about returning. It is a gentle, courageous journey back to the wisdom of your own body and the truth of your own story. This is the heart of my work.

My Therapeutic Approach: How We Create Lasting Change Together

While your journey is unique, the path toward wholeness often involves these core elements. In our sessions, we will work collaboratively to:

  • Create Space to Slow Down: Before we can heal, we must first have room to breathe. Our initial focus will be on quieting the external noise and internal pressure, creating a calm, nonjudgmental space where you can finally set down the heavy load you’ve been carrying.
  • Listen to Your Body’s Wisdom: For those struggling with burnout, eating disorders, or postpartum changes, the body often holds the story. We will gently work to rebuild trust in your body’s signals—hunger, fullness, exhaustion, and emotion. This practice of interoceptive awareness is fundamental to restoring balance and making peace with your physical self.
  • Cultivate Radical Self-Compassion: We will actively work to soften the voice of the inner critic that drives burnout and perpetuates cycles of shame. You will learn to treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding you would offer a dear friend, especially during moments of struggle.
  • Honor the Reality of Grief and Change: Whether you are grieving a person, a role, or a future you envisioned, your loss will be given the space it deserves. We will honor your experience without rushing the process, understanding that grief is not something to be “solved,” but a landscape to be navigated with support and reverence.
  • Reconnect with Your Values, Not Just Your Roles: As a professional, a mother, or a partner, your identity can become entwined with your responsibilities. Our work will involve gently untangling who you are from what you do, helping you reconnect with the core values that bring you a sense of purpose and authenticity.

This work is for you if you are…

  • A woman feeling depleted and disconnected from the relentless pace of professional and personal life.
  • A new or expecting mother navigating the profound identity shifts and challenges of the perinatal and postpartum period.
  • A young adult trying to build a meaningful life while grappling with anxiety and uncertainty.
  • Someone moving through the fog of grief, seeking a way to honor your loss while moving forward.
  • An individual hoping to heal their relationship with food and their body, free from judgment and shame.

You don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. If this approach resonates with you, I invite you to reach out. Together, we can begin the journey back to your most grounded, authentic self.

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About Dr. Chala

A licensed clinical psychologist providing compassionate, evidence-based psychotherapy to individuals throughout the East Bay and across California via teletherapy.